The top seven things you should never say to a widow.
The top seven things you should never say to a widow..
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The top seven things you should never say to a widow.
Isn’t it great to have the bed and/or bathroom all to yourself? Yes, sure. It’s certainly is not a glaring reminder that your significant other is dead. People have actually said this to me. Yes, I hated it when Peter would take up the whole bed. Yes, I hated it when Peter would forget to […]
So…Your(sic) an art dealer
I am ready to be bad; I have finally figured out that I just want to have fun with boys. I want to stop trying to force feelings and have a blast. Everyone tells me the best way to have fun is to date someone fun. However not one of my friends has told me […]
I broke my own heart
I am on a plane back to Portland after spending the weekend away. The plane, my head and the people around me are spinning. I am more hungover than I have ever been in my life. Hangover implies drinking and I did a lot of that. Plane implies travel and yep, that happened as well. […]
Rhino part II
I agree to meet Rhino at a coffee shop in Portland. Agree. Fuck, I practically text yes before he even sends the “date” text. At this point I am so desperate and lonely and horny, that I truly believe the red headed rhino will be my savior. Who cares if he is boring as […]
Linda, Glasses, the Dealer and Rhino
Linda, Glasses, the Dealer and Rhino ALRIGHT! That is it. I am dating, no more fucking around. I will have a first date after death. But what is a date? Coffee? Drinks? Do people still go to a full blown dinner? Is a dinner too much to ask? Who pays for said dinner? If I […]
Bitter is as bitter does
My sister in law called me bitter. To be more precise, she called this blog right here bitter. I have been called so many adjectives since I started writing this blog. Hell, I have been called a myriad of adjectives my whole life, but none so much as when I started writing this blog. Peter’s […]
Code Talkers
Today is Christmas and I am in Puerto Vallarta. Twenty-one years ago, in this very spot, I was planning how to be a married lady. I was really only a girl but I was damn sure going to be a captivating wife. I was on my honeymoon. Today as I stated earlier is Christmas, why […]
Blog tour
What are you working on? I am working on this blog as well as a screenplay loosely based on my life. How does your work differ from others in its genre? Well, I have never read a blog about losing a spouse that is based in anything but faith. Faith that you will survive, faith […]
Streams
Streams of consciousness are interesting. I am sitting up in bed and as usual I can’t sleep. No one is texting me (which sucks and means in my mind that no one loves me anymore) and I have some sort of undefined ache. I turn on the T.V. hoping that something wonderful and miraculous is […]
lifeinthewidowhood 